The king of toxic masculinity, in my opinion, is the infamous Kanye West. Drunk-dialing your ex, is a no no everybody, especially on Valentine’s Day. To top it off, Drake confesses he’s having sex four times a week and financially supporting women, but still feels like he has the right to comment on his ex’s relationship. Although “Marvins Room” is a classic, the crux of the song is about plotting on someone who is happily taken. It seems like I’m picking on Drake, but between him and Future, love might as well be a myth. In one song, Drake admits he’s not someone to trust, gives out Chanel like a hug, is a pathological liar, and messed with his significant others friends back in the day, all while threatening he might give her back to the hood if she acts up. The topics and levels of intimacy Aubrey raps about in “Childs Play” makes me feel like he needs to see someone too. Now Drake knew damn well he shouldn’t have written this song. What the hell? He even lists all his partners unhealthy habits and states he, “don't need emotions to open your deep sea, I conceive an ocean by goin' between legs.” See a therapist, Wale. The track opens with Wale smoking a blunt and confessing that monogamy ain’t for him, but that he also loves the sex from his toxic, emotionally unavailable piece. Putting an end to trust issues depends on your inner motivation.I want to prefix this by saying that I love this song.and that’s the problem. You deserve love and can make wholesomeness happen, no matter how damaged you've been before. Understand that you have agency and can say: "Enough!" Being your own advocate and taking charge can help you understand insecurities, work through past trauma, and get your partner involved in the process. Right now, it may seem as if the hurt is never going to end.Īfter all, you've been cheated so many times in the past that history is bound to repeat itself, isn't it? Why trusting is so hard but is also the greatest thing on earthThe #1 reason why you have trust issues and what you can do to fix itThe F-word in the world of betrayal trauma (that stands for forgiveness, get your mind out of the gutter!) Why sweeping trauma under the carpet never works, and why you have to face your issuesAnxious attachment and how it can kill a good relationshipOne exercise psychologists believe is vital for building trust with your partnerThe beauty of vulnerability and openness 10 signs your trust issues have really messed you up
In Trust Issues in Relationships, you will discover: This, however, doesn't mean you'll never get over it or that you'll never discover real love.
You don't want to be hurt ever again, which is why you do your best to kill the potential for something serious before it has even happened.ĭo you envision yourself dying alone, surrounded by a thousand cats? Your outcome doesn't have to be this grim.īetrayal trauma hurts, whether it has been inflicted on you by a parent, a friend, or a romantic partner. Trust issues are detrimental for one more key reason: self-sabotage. Raise your hand if you've been betrayed before and you're taking it out on your current partner now.īetrayal trauma makes us many unpleasant things – jealous, anxious, whiny, needy, insecure.
We usually dump all of that baggage on people who have nothing to do with our screwed up past. Unless you've never been in a relationship before or you don't have questionable family dynamics, chances are that some type of betrayal has happened in your life. The #1 Reason Why You Have Trust Issues and Why Feeling Messed Up Doesn't Mean You'll Never Find Real Love
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